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The root of stress has to do with immaturity…Your methods of approaching life, dealing with life’s adversities, the way you accept reality, & how you get along with people especially those who oppose you.

Traditionally right now what are your methods of dealing with the rigors of life?

Immaturity will cost you jobs, money, & opportunities. A contrarian is someone who takes an opposing view to everything. A fault finder is someone who picks things apart & never takes any risks to change. A troll is someone who deliberately says something for the purpose of upsetting someone.

Immaturity is Select Listening, Hearing What We Want to Hear

Being Naïve is a form of immaturity. Naïve means you have been lazy to go out & get with what is going on beyond the confines of your little world. Most things we claim we know about came from hearsay information.

When faced with pain, adversity, struggle, & challenge it is usually not the difficulty itself that becomes our stress its the longer we think about  it that wrecks us. Its our imagination that blows everything out of proportion. Here is a fact of reality; none of us will go unscathed in life. A lot of us try to live in a protective bubble but soon we will have to  confront the very thing we have been avoiding-OFH

The way to maturity begins by finding an intellectual circle of people that will challenge you yet give you plenty of new knowledge. The way to maturity is finding a circle of diversified men & women with tremendous experience & life history who will gladly share themselves & empower you.

The Bible says it best about maturity…When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of a child behind me.      I Corinthians 13:11

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About the author: Richard Hartner is a wellness coach in Tucson Arizona